Infidelity in a relationship is very painful . But when a man is having an affair , not only because he was tempted by another woman . According to experts , there are several factors that make a man commit adultery .
1 . Genetic FactorsThe scientists discovered the existence of the vasopressin receptor gene in a man's body . This gene is already dubbed as ' gene fraudsters ' . Men who have shaped the vasopressin receptor gene length , tend to not like having an affair . While men playboy , has a shorter gene . Hormones also influence on the affairs of men .
Oxytocin is a hormone that causes a feeling of trust , and mutual need between the happy couple . A
strong relationship is created over this hormone , men with low
oxytocin tend to be having an affair because he did not have an
emotional bond . In the end , it impacts on the breakdown of a relationship .
2 . Poor Condition" Men may cheat because they want to escape for a moment of trouble .
Could be financial problems , stress at work or relationship that is not
good . With an affair , he felt an extra energy gets even know it is
only temporary , " said Keren Smedley romance consultant .
According to Keren , many men prefer to raise his ego in a way faster
than brooding and trying to find a way out of the problem .
3 . Factors LoverAccording to psychologist Roslina Verauli , M. Psi . , Couples lying and cheating is certainly no cause. One attitude that women can trigger a cheating spouse is often angry . Try correction yourself , what often angry for no reason to the couple that she felt uncomfortable ?
"
Actually, that should be reviewed from both sides . Firstly what you
are too strict? Easy explosiveness ? And emotionally unstable that could
trigger a partner to lie ? " Vera said to Wolipop .
In addition, men can love another woman because her boyfriend is too possessive and controlling . The attitude would make him uncomfortable and prefer other women .
4 . Factor of the PastIn addition to some of the above factors , the story in the past also gives effect to the tendency of a person to an affair . That is , it could be caused by the story of past relationships -parent households . What happened in the past will usually be less influential on the development of one's future . If a father was having an affair then the behavior is not likely to be followed by the child .
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